fourth november two thousand and ten

it is true. I am no longer a child. chocolate birthday cake. sparkling candles. colourful dots. pretty candies. extra candle. tasty orange juice. lovely time with family. Love. I am thankful in life. I do. I don't usually take the time to thank my friends for being there, right next to me, but I couldn't be happier or more satisfied. I appreciate them like a glow of sunshine on a rainy day. today, I'm crying of joy. For having them, for loving them. Because God gave me a blessing, and He keeps amazing me every single day with his love and strenght he gives me. I am stronger today, a lot more than yeasterday. weaker though, than tommorow.

I remember I use to fly in wings of love, in wings of childhood. I use to laugh as loud as I could, to tell others of how much happy I was, how much loved I was. I use to climb high mountains, to tell others I'm tall enough, I'm strong enough. I even use to smile, to show others I am brave on the inside. today though, I'm laughing to warm my heart, to make it a little bit brighter. I'm tall enough today, and stronger than ever before. I smiled too, and my heart can't be more happy. Today I want to say thank you, to whoever has taken the time to help me trough something, to whoever God put on my way.

I remember being very little, very very young when I noticed a ray of sunshine. It came straight to my eyes, but instead of turning away, I stared. How much light, how much beuty. My world lit up. And that little light, I'm gonna let it shine.

I lie in bed tonight with 14. Come tommorow, I'll wake 15. God bless the day.

I'm empty. Did I mention that I hate the days I come home very soon? Did I mention that I hate carrots not because of their taste? Did I mention that it still hurts to eat ice cream cones? Did I mention that I still have her number on my mobile phone? Did I mention that Halloween still feels a little strange? Did I mention that we were just about days to sing her happy birthday? that the next second november two thousand and ten she would be blowing fifteen candles? Did I ever, for a single second, mention I miss her more than words can tell?

Happy Early Birthday, Marta.

she.

I woke up the other day feeling I had to take a photo. I failed to make it though. My compact camera has been low, very low. It doesn't work. I managed to pick up my other compact camera. same problem. I reached out for my dad's fujifilm but it's gone. two brocken cameras and a lost one. I don't know what happened here, but I need to have my photo taken. now.





My calendar is inserting some nervosims and longing here. in my heart.


I've dreamed of her for a couple of months, maybe a year. And I'm finaly having her on christmas day. Dear Santa Claus, a happy early thankyou!

Inês

xx

Today.

there was a time I use to dream. I sat and dreamed awake. I wondered about the colours in the sky. I marvelled in the air. I breathed slowly. I catched butterflies. I smiled. I was so happy.

There was a day. A few years ago. I woke up, I dreamt. I sat and dreamt awake. I wondered about the colours in that moorning sky, I marvelled the foggy air, I breathed slowly. I saw some butterflies, I caught them. I smiled from ear-to-ear. I was so happy.

Just hours after that, my world sinked. I knew and I knew and I knew. I knew she would never come back again. I felt it. I felt she would become an angel very soon. That somehow, her place wasn't here on earth. She closed her eyes and openned them no more. I knew she was almost gone. I cried. I though about all that time with her. It had been sincerely amazing and it was vanishing. Cancer was winning. It was obvious. Her mom held her hand and told her it would be just fine. to let go.

4 years and 8 months ago today, God called an angel.
I love you and I miss you, prescious.

We've found you.

Through the last couple of years, we searched for a child. It was not because my mother couldn't have biological children but because we wanted to help someone else. We wanted to become a foster family. We've realized it is difficult, even more difficult if the child is young. Just the other day, we've found her.

there she was. sitting with crossed legs. face hiding in their hands. her whole body sinking.

'Hi' my mother said.
She looked up but said nothing.
'If you don't talk I can't help you'.
'My name's Leonor' the girl eventually pronounced.
'So why are you here, Leonor?'
'Nobody likes me'
'Why do you say that, Why don't you go home?'
'Because it's true, and I don't have a home'
'Where you do live, then?'
'In the college to where all unliked girls go to'
'I am sure somebody loves you. Your mom?'
'My mom dumped me there. She has only visited twice in seven years'
'Oh. Your dad?'
'My dad use to hit me and left me with no food for days. They took me away from him'
My mother started to realized the life Leonor was leading was no easy thing.

'But hey, you can't stay here forever. Why don't you go back to the college?'
'I only have two girlfriends there. They got mad at me because Of a boy. I can't help it. He likes me and I can't do anything about it'
Mom agreed with her head.
'You'll have to have lunch, take this' Mom gave some money.
The girl smiled and promissed she'd be back to tell her what she wanted to do.
When my mother came back from lunch, the girl was waiting in the same place.

'So, Leonor, Have you though about what you wanted to do?'
'No, sur. I just don't know. It's like I'm lost'
'I can drive you to your colege'
'Would you do that for me?' her eyes light up.
'Yes, of course.'
'I loved talking to you, You're really someone helpful' she said.
Mom was proud of herself, in some way.

She took her in, and said Goodbye. The Girl smiled and thanked her.
When she was already going out, Leonor came running at her, hugged her and whispered 'thank you so much' . Mom was touched. She gave her the phone number if the Girl needed anything.

The next day, she appeared on my mother's work. With a friend. She said she was there to thank my mother. She too said, that there would be a party saturday in the college for parents and friends of the pupils. She looked down.

'I don't have caring parents. I don't have friends who like me. You're the only caring person that I've found. Could you come?'
Mom couldn't say no. She called the director of the school but she already had a non answered phone call from him. He told her it was great if she could come, that she had made Leonor much happier then before.

So at 2PM, saturday - mom will go to visit her, as being her friend, as being someone she loves.

This is just to tell everyone that sometimes, you try so much to help the others around when there are people right before your eyes that need your help more than ever.

May the angels proctect you.
I x

I forgot.

"Mourning is not forgetting, It is an undoing. Every minute tie has to be untied, and something permanent and valuable recovered and assimilated from the dust" ~ Margery Allingham

In the midst of the summer, in the rush of hot new days, I clearly forgot something. I still don't know exactly how but yes I did, and I feel ashamed. Nobody told me that along with missing, griefing and mourning, there was forgetting. I still remember her voice and her loud laughs and her face. I still can smell her fragance if I close my eyes. But I can't feel her touch anymore. I forgot how it felt like. I forgot what it was like to be touched by herself. I simply disire not to. Time will keep on coming and I'm scared. I fear I'll forget how her voice sounded, how she'd smile in the moornings at the school's big door. I fear and I fear and I fear. And I don't know what to do not to forget.

Today is just not one happy happy day.

I x

mum, oh mum.

It all started 9 months before 4th November 1995. The comception. Yes, I was thiner than a toothpick, and yes, maybe smaller than an ant - but I was loved. For 9 long months, I waited. She waited too. Among family and friends who were excited to see me. 9 months went by before they could think of a name. Yes, 'Inês' came out of nothing. After spending the last weeks calling me 'Rita', she decided I wasn't her. I was her beloved Inês. At 10am of that freezing day, the fog became a little lighter and the rain stopped just a little bit. And just as it, after 13 hours of birth, I was out. Out in this world. She looked at me. She wondered, she cherished, she embraced what she had in her arms. Her first child, her little girl. I spent the first hour of my life looking at her, admiring, loving and cherishing my mother.

It's been 14 years from then on. 14 years and 10 months since I first opened my eyes. And my mum, oh she is still here. I fail, too often, to show her I love her. I've always been the kind of toddler who didn't enjoy cuddles. The kind of child who skipped goodnight kisses. But I loved her, no doubt.

In the middle of this 14 years, we cherish what she have. I mean, the love. The path would have been more difficult if she was not there, by my side. And even when she wasn't phisically there, I knew she was thinking about me. Like that time I managed my first canter at a horse riding lesson. Like that time I fell off my horse. Like that time around 2006 when my favourite doll was cut by my 7 year-old brother. And yet, I felt her there. Most of the times I calmed down, it was to please her. To make sure she though I was calm. But she never did. Mom, oh mom you know me better than anyone else. You saw my ups and downs. And no, today isn't mother's day, it isn't your birthday either nor mine. But I still had this aching need to say I love you. And that I'm thankful and glad for these years.

You know mom, I'm just... thankful.

I x

pretty things & missing them

Thank you Sarah so much for designing and creating such a cute look to my blog. I could not be more thankful - it is beutiful. I've always wanted something like this and I'm so glad someone so nice could do it for me as I don't understand this kind of things.





Today, I'm missing those (I'll dare to call them) 'OLD' times. My greastest friends have dissapeared in a blink of an eye to go home and we were left alone. It's such a cold non sense feeling between all of us. We do miss them and we want them back but they live where they live and can only visit us at some holidays. I'm hoping on the 17th Auggust they'll appear on the airport and wave us goodbye as we head off to Jamaica. I'll be off for 1/2 weeks, it depends if Algarve gives me it's lovely internet connection. Anyway, these are us. And all I miss right now.

love,

Inês.

Kayleigh.

"Some days there won't be a song in your heart. sing anyway" ~ Emory Austin.

It's been a normal day apart from the glowing moment I saw her face. Bright. Beutiful. magical. There she was, with cute dimples and shinning eyes, and a a faithful heart. Her name is Kayleigh. Kayleigh Justice. I learnt that this very beauty-full 4 year-old was battling a monster. It's name is Neuroblastoma. Stage 4 high risk Neuroblastoma. He faces Kayleigh and tries to beat her down every single time he comes around the corner. Kayleigh stands up, though, and shows him who's the boss in the game. She never gets tired and always sticks the most gorgeous smile in her enchanting face. This little girl is the daughter of a nurting mom who loves her two wondurful children - Valerie Riggs. This woman's been fighting alone for her daughter's life. She stands up every single time cancer comes back, and she helps Kayleigh never let the cancer touch her sweet and free spirit. It never did.

Kayleigh needs prayers and hope and faith - for her sweet and prescious life.

Please, stay tuned.

"You've got a face for a smile, I know!"

blessed

Tonight, as I headed for the maccdonald's restaurant, I noticed the sunset in the horizon. It was a stunning perfection of the sun blending in the sea, far far away. I promissed myself I'd end up having dinner and would head off to the sandy beach, take off my shoes and run to feel that endless freedomn. It's just that I took my camera - too. A friend, and a bunch of giggles and smiles to share. We ended up sitting in the rocks, smiling at each other, deciding either to use flash or not and writing "I love you" messages in the sand. The result was a bunch of pretty pretty memories to keep, freezed in time and in this beutiful and breathtaking evening. A soft melody filled the air while I ran happily past a fisherman. The old man smiled at me. I smiled back and just stoped to see that lonely fisherman's look while he couldn't reach any fish. Just in the middle of this heartwarming evening, I forgot the time as I knew but I swore - I'll never forget you.

summer - it's just here

sensitive thoughts.
bright white walls.
bells of the chapel ringing.
busy bugs on the laptop screen.
fizzy tasty drinks for lunch.
bunch of lovely people.
vanilla smell everywhere.
stary night sky.
long, long nice talks.
beutiful walks through the town.

it's been a beuty-full summer time.
I x

Back for good;

I'm just back from a relaxing, selfcalming and brilliant Algarve holidays. In the midst of it, we smiled, laughed, shared good moments and enjoyed the peace. Most of all, we had a wondurful time in Praia da Luz. The resort was nearby the beach and it was filled with flowers all along so that's why I grabbed my camera up and took tones of pictures. There was so much to say, but really, the love filled up my days with grace and it was stunning. The wheather was just so hot that sometimes I could barely breath. The landskape was breathtaking, aswell.





Blogging has become fun and photography is now a passion instead of a hobby. I just feel like I'm tearing myself apart and not in the bad way, just that I'm lost and confused about my future plans and so much rolling through my head. I wanna be a mom. I wanna have little girls who I will dress up in the sweetests outfits and cutest shoes and flowering hats but I wanna have stunning little boys to play soccer with and run in the poodles and turn our sofas durty and masculine. I wanna stay here forever, and watch the birds fly in the calmly silence that takes the day into the night but I wanna be free and run the whole wide world, too. I wanna be a lawyer, and stand up in front of government leaders, just the kind of thought that we can save the world, just us. But then I wanna work out with photography and cinema. I wanna have a husband and a family, but then I wanna grow stronger and by myself, and just cross the world searching for the meaning of life.





whatever desteny gives me and wherever it will take me,


I will always be.right.here.

the story

pardon me, I think I've always been telling you about how much I miss Marta when I've never even told you WHO she is and WHAT happened to her. I'm so sorry; I had never noticed it before! So I'll close my eyes, take away all my tears, find some strenght from inside and holding back the memories, I'll write here...

Marta was this lovely, beutiful and enchanting little girl. She was born the 2nd November 1995 and she was just the sweetest thing. She had the most beutiful curly brown hair and deep green eyes. If you'd see our Marta, you could notice she was looked just like an angel. Marta loved playing outside in the backyard and running around the refreshing machine in the football court. We'd run together without shoes in the grass and that must have been the most simple but so beutiful memory I still hold. Her voice was just like the melody of Heaven. She had it sooo pure and her loving soul could be heard throughout her words. I can still remember Marta talking to me, teaching me her beutiful life lessons along the way. Marta came to this world to give only love. She was just that type of little girl that you'd love to have as a friend. You'd see her and you'd think how beutiful she was and how responsable and polite for her tender age. She was very shy but she had an open mind to almost everything. She loved butterfly kisses and she loved her mommy; Oh she was just in LOVE with her mother. They got along so well and they were like bestfriends, also. I could go on and on and on telling you about her and how wondurful she was. That heartwarming little girl changed my life. But I would never stop so I think it's time to let you know what happened. June 2005 was our last school party. It was the summer party and we loved it! We posed for the anual picture. Our very last picture. I never knew I wouldn't see her alive again, that was never part of our plans together. At that time of the year, Marta was perfectly healthy, at least, though to be. Back in that year, in late November, she started complaining about bruises on her body and some other sympthoms so she was taken to the nearest hospital. Later that day, she was ruched to the pediatric emergencies only to find out that she has Leukemia. The news were desvastating. Through months, my beutiful bestfriend fought like a hero. In middle January, 17th 2006, at the tender age of 10, Marta closed her eyes in her hospital bed, and went to play with the angels. We had booked the 18th January to go playing outside and just as it, it vanished. All her life. All our plans and hopes and dreams. Everything was gone. And another 10 year-old girl lost her bestfriend that sunny moorning of January. It is not fair.

Poem writen by her mommy and dadda before she left the school;

"Marta La Fuente Forbes Bessa"

Martita went, so very pretty,

so very little,

to her little school.

Now she's a little lady,

and very clever, there she goes,

to another big school.

Marta with her eyes,

big and green, and

curly brown hair,

very beutiful, there she goes,

running in the fields of green

butterfly kisses,

mommy xoxo

From António Nobre,

Marta will take many happy memories,

Her teacher Gina will always be,

close to her heart.

Heart bitting very fast,

time to say goodbye,

she's going to 5th Grade,

green eyes filled with hope,

a bright future ahead, for her life.

Daddy is thanking you all too,

for having taken care of my little girl,

in whose face,

a very shinning light comes through

Goodbye, Goodbye,

untill someday,

long great life for all of you.

Daddy ZÉ, xoxO

And I still I'm not sure if it's time to say goodbye. At least, even after 4 years, I'm not prepared.
ready? set? please don't go.

I x

do you cloud-dream?

I've come across sheye's blog again to see the last updates but came out to find this lovely website from Fran (what a lovely mind!) called cloud-dreaming. It's so calm and gives you such a sense of relax and breaths and lovely things. I feel absolutely amazed at how imagination can lead us, and to what it lead Fran to. I'm really willing to give it a try. I've attached this image of Heaven; who I soo adore and get lost in it.

More little news...
Carolina was ruched to hospital early this moorning to stay till sunday. She's so vulnerable and little and sweet and oh-what-a-cutie kind of girl. I wonder why this happened and wonder how can we solve it out. That was my big great mission in life. you can see her in her website called Carolina's Hope and leave your messages. I do appreciate them and sure my family will, too. She is going to hospital to change her diet with some new healthy products who will be good for the development of her brain - I think. But as this day I've been thinking of my little boog-a-boo princess and little cutie, I decided to leave you some "old" photos. I love you soo much, carolina!

p.s : I'm re-creating Carolina's website and building a new one which will be more interesting and helpful in the mission to find the cure so keep updated on this! I have been thinking of ordering a Layla's hat so the money could be given to her foundation and our little hero could get one for herself! she'd look so cute with it though she hates things mom puts on her curly hair. She's a tomboy .

Inês

xx

(Not to) be remenbered;

Gandi once said

"Whatever you do in life will be insignificant, but it's very important that you do it";

I couldn't agree more with him; It's so true and so sad - all at once. Living a whole life leaning on strenght and being the best you can ever be, and then waking up to find that in a couple of years, no one will ever remenber you. No one will think about what you did, what you said and all the beautiful things you ever got to experience; Nobody will ever recall your name to say you build a website to help others or wrote a dozen of words in a blog, inspired by someone and wanting to help. It's so sad, so wrong. But what about Her? And what about all these people loved by so many across the world? what did they do that I can't do? Nothing. They acted wondurfully, they said some beautiful words, they changed many minds because of what they got to say or what they got to do. But what does it mean now that they're gone? everything. Our universe is how it because of those people. People who fought so bravely for others and to help. People who never gave up. And Have you look around to see what your friends are doing? what your family is doing? something to change the world? No? and why is that?
People don't believe. They act like normal, randmon and ordinary human beings. What do they think those people who changed the world had in their minds? Happiness? Joy? well, not really. I'm absolutely sure some of them were crying inside, grieving like us, feeling sorrow, despeer and missing someone, too. But they did never give up. And the point is that nobody believes anymore. Apart from all the bad feelings they had, they Believed. To be someone speacial to this world, to be able to be remembered for the good things you did, you have to Believe. You can't just go down your way and expet someone to change your own little world. You have to help, to be someone, to do the best you can in this brief time you have here.

think about; why were we given life?
to wake up and go to work and arrive home late in the evening, frustated and tired? To eat all these types of wondurful fat food and going to the mall to buy things and do your shopping? to what, tell me.

I'm convicted that I know it. We were given life for so many reasons, some of them so clear. Like loving your children; But there are more, still. Reasons behind your belief. Reasons that were born with us but for some reasons, many have made it fade away; like loving yourself. But most of all, our biggest reason for why we were given life was to make this world a better place. Not to expet someone to do it for ourselfs. Be yourself, strong enough to believe you can be remembered in a million years. That people will remember what you did, what you said, who you helped.

But, before thinking about being remembered, think about helping. Think about that it's actualy not important to be remember for many years. You'll be long gone when they speack your name out. And thought it might sound like a true dream for you - it's nothing special. what makes you speacial is being youself. People don't have to say "thank you" or love you very much. You have to feel confortable and your mind has to tell you, that you always do your best. That's exactly what being special means. You know, even if you're never remembered, even if they forget about you forever, there are people who will eternally be thankful for what you did. For the words you lovingly told them. For the moments you were there. Even when you don't notice their gratitude, deep inside they're thanking you from the bottom of their hearts.

Don't ever wish to be remembered; Just so you remember life is too prescious and what you're doing here might not be significant for upcoming genarations, but in the hearts of many, many people, it will be a very shinning, golden gift - and then you'll think "that's because of me"

I x

{ready, set, don't go}

It's been a painfull, heartbreacking and sad time of my life. I just miss her. I just want to hold her hand and tell her it's ok, that we're together. I just want our secret talks back, and all our hugs and all our laughs. It makes me cry, really, to know this easter is just one terrifying time who will be repeated every year, troughout my life. I've always loved special days, but loving that now it's impossible. The pain seems to grow stronger by the minute, by just thinking she's not here anymore. I think of that every single day, but this special days are harder. I still remenber her everyday of my life and I still try to recover every memory we both have but it's not the same and it will never be. For her, I want to grow stronger. For her, I want to help other children in the same situation and for her, I want my heart to be changed and be able to help other troughout my grief. It's true that I'll always miss her and long for her, along this way but if missing Marta feels like this, and I can't avoid, I want to take a positive part of it, even though it's hard to say there's a "positive" part. I can help others and show others how to be brave, even though I'm not the best example of braveness. And I miss her and want her back, and somehow I still feel she's nearby sometimes. I don't want to loose the memories I still have of her, of her wondurful bittersweet voice and of all the smiles we shared. I don't want her soul to leave this world, her body had phisically left in 2006 but I'm sure she's still here, somehow. Watching me, helping me breath. I know and believe so. So, darling, whenever you want...

Ready.
Set.
But please don't go.

I x

{reflecting}

a truly wondurful homecoming. the holidays were amazing, and I got time to relax and to try to move on. I didn't, thought. It had some hard days and they were even harder than the usual. I don't really know why. most of the time, I was sad for Her. My lovingly wondurful Girl. And for the easter she'll never get to experience. So today as this is Easter, I'll head off to my Memaw's home and before I wanted to leave you a few escapes of the week.
Please visit Layla's foundation who was lovingly set; www.remenberlayla.org

I'd like to ask you to reflect a bit on you life, as well. I'm not that type of relligious person who takes much time in the church or something. Not at all. But sometimes it's important to take a look at everything we have and cherish it and appreciate it. Because all over the world today, there are families griefing for their children and families searching for them when they should be home enjoying easter. I don't even like Easter a lot. I hate sundays because people are always kept at home and it's like nobody seems to move on and to walk out to the road. I like confussion, the simpliciness of the day is to be enjoyed calmly within a few moments - not a whole day! And sundays it's all about staying at home. It's like the world stops and just moves on all mondays. But my world already stoped one day and I truly don't want to have it parked in the highway of life, again. So Happy Easter for all of you who like this. Liking or not, there are people who like and who should be celebrating it happily. sad. most of all, Easter is just about sadness for me. will soon upload some holiday pictures.

Just because... I'm not happy at all.

{all at once}

Arrived yeasterday to Algarve. sunny. warm and most of all, calm. I always love to spend holidays here. Easter is for relaxing, summer is for fun. It's cold now. The wind is blowing stronger and stronger and the empty swings are starting to make those noises they always do. There are always plenty brittish girls here. all blonde and green eyed. Empty swings. Dark nights. little Brittish girls. they're just a remind really of what isn't here anymore. I always have a hard time on my very first night here. I make sure the windows are completely closed and the door is too. I make sure there's no way out or in. It scares me, thought, when mum comes to say Goodnight and shuts off the lights. And then I hear those scary and frightning noises. and then I stop and stare everywhere. and then I hide my face in my pillow and try to forget. just try. But then I keep on looking around, scared that someone might come and take me too. Scared that the man who took her can still be outthere, out my door. I look like a Baby once I'm ready to sleep. I try hard to hide myself bellow the blankets. Mum says it's ok. Her mommy once said it was ok too. To not to be scared. to close her eyes and that they'd come to her soon. She wasn't scared. she closed her eyes. But when she openned them, mommy or daddy or sister or brother or any other person she knew wasn't there. It's scarying and terrifying that such Baby had to be taken away, so soon, so tragically. No matter how much posters I put up in the strees, no matter how much tears I let hit the floor or how much times I think about her, she is still not here. And I try to remenber every single thing. Every slidge of her voice, every tone and every sound she made. And every footstep and every time she danced, sang or simply trew herself to the floor. and everytime she'd buy new pink shoes and everytime she'd laugh, smile or cuddle with her family in the sofa. And everytime she'd catch the tennis court's balls and safely put them together in the box. And everyday she went to the beach, and every ice cream she bought and every seabath she took. And I remenber and I cry. and I cry for everything. For knowing that she's not here anymore. And for the school year without her. And for the draws pending in the fridge signed by her. And for the artcrafts that lie safely in her desktop. And for the empty bed she left behind and for her bedroom dolls that haven't been touched since then. And for all the clothes that are still handing in the closet, waiting for her. Just like us. And for every day we had. And for every single word we said. And for every game we played and for every laugh we shared. And for the hugs, the kisses, the embraces. Most of all I cry for her. And I wonder. I wonder where she is. I wonder how she is. How she looks like and everything related to it. Is she taller? Is her hair longer? Does she know how to write her whole name down in a paper? And I wonder for everything. For the times we never had. for the times we lost. For the moments we'll never get back. For the years and for the future. And I wonder and I pray. And I pray for her, for her recovery. For every child outthere who is in the very same situation. And I pray for every mother, every father. Every family who has to lie down in bed without giving a goodnight kiss to their sweet Babies. And every sister who has to remenber her big buddy by pictures, just like my Amelie. And for every brother who has to hear the silence of a no-longer happy home, just like my Sean. And for everything we've been trought and every family who has to be trought the same. And I love. And I love the people who keep on searching, who keep on dreaming of the day she'll come home. Who keep on searching for her, who keep remenbering that Hope will never die. Most of all, I remenber her. I cry for her. I wonder for her. and nevertheless, I pray for herself too. That the angels, the Gods, whatever they may be, take my Baby home. Just like that. simple as it. Give me a smile, once again. Bring her back. that's all I ask. All I want. Bring Madeleine Back.

for more info go to www.findmadeleine.com
I x

tears of an angel

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUIFSusvt_s&feature=quicklist





this video gives me chills. Makes me cry, remenber and be-thankful. Haylee has been such great inspiration on my daily life and so does Sharon. Every person who simply took the time to leave me a message, to subscribe me, to leave a comment in one video or even just watch a video of mine, thank you. It means too much to know people truly like what I'm doing and so I can keep on doing it. I find no explanation for the reasons why I want to make videos in memory of all this angels or simply take the time to see them, to hear their voices, to feel them nearby. I don't really know why but I gotta love it. I know they all cried once, too. They're my inspirations and I fight for them. I want their voices to reach everyone. A world where little ones die is not a good world for anyone. We can't keep living and going day-by-day just seeing every new of every case and just let it go. A child who dies always leaves an inprint in the world, and we can't just let their memories go in vain. we have to celebrate their lives, be thankful for the years but most of all, understand what went wrong so we can help other families and other children in ways they could never imagine. By a simple tragic death, we can prevent millions of other deaths. and so, every kid who pasts, is a hero, hisself.


Thank you Sharon for being the best bestfriend I could ever find, thank you Haylee for always beeing there, for making sure I feel your love even when you're just too far away and thank you everyone, really. Thanks God, you truly changed me too!




Finaly, I want to thank Layla herself for being such a fighter and for teaching me life lessons within 2 weeks. She will never be forgotten, really.

I x

{Believing}

I've always seen illnesses from a different perspective. I've always been so much into this type of things that I never though myself could be traped in it. I'm not. yet.


I keep on praying it's going to be fine. Keep on believing there are angels on the ground to help me out with this and I truly know I'm strong. I know it's just a little bit longer and I'll be fine. Beliving is the cure. He is magical. who? My dream-a-boy. He made me forget all this problems. Made me dream about a better day. Made me laugh. made me... remenber. Oh, How I remenbered him throughout time! Oh, if only he know how often I'd think of him.. I truly missed him. It's too much time to pull out till tommorow's afternoon. To see him. to embrace him. to... kiss him! Oh My God, Is it a dream? Is it true? I don't want to wake up, though!

and today, a quick joyfull things; here down on the post. Ain't she the sweetest child in history? Layla Grace Marsh, forever remenbered and loved (and deeply missed)

november 2007 - March 2010

Ines x

me {in wonderland}

I wish I had, a whole in the ground. where I could maybe fall into it. Underground. Fallen down. Upside down, and nothing could stop me. a place where my imagination came to life and my dreams could come true. a Happy mister bunny and a big talking cat. a crazy clown and a monster for me to fight with. Yes, my life is such a wonderland. I have a place to make my imagination turn everything around, dreams though don't come true. I have a happy mister bunny and a cat, not talking (yet). and a big monster inside my neck for me to fight it. I am starting to hear those words like "tumors" and "radition" and "biopsy" such as "hospitals", "it will be ok" and "it's nothing" and the worst, the very terrible word I've heard is "cancer". May God proctect me on my new exams, may desteny says it's just a little infection. praying it's only that. tottaly praying.

I luv you.
Inês.

the dandelion.

once, a vibrant, bright, little child, grabed a dandelion from the ground. It was there, in the middle of the grass; pure, little, fragile. She grabbed it, carefully. It was in her beutiful, safe and motherly hands. Her mother told her to blow it, to ask a wish. The little Girl, looked at it, found the strengh to ask the wish, closed her eyes and wishepered "may God take me home". The same, powerfull, fearless, and strong words, she said once she closed her eyes for the last time. a vibrant, bright, little child. A pure soul, asking to be taken to Heaven. the world must be so bad, that we come to the point, children ask to die. I did not want to believe she asked it. It was enough pain, I know. I love, mourn, and dream about you, my darling.
Once I was coming home, from a family walk, I stopped and stared a bunch of dandelions on the grass, they were all together, blowing with the wind, getting together. I stoped again, catched my breath, and remenbered her. the way she held it tightly, I did it too. The way she secretely told the dandelion what she wanted, as if it was some kind of fairy. I grabbed it up in both hands, I looked to the breathtaking sea, to the horizon, to the bleding blue sky, towards the sun, I wishepered, too, "save a place for me, I'll be there soon" , and suddenly, the wind took my white petals of the dandelion away. I could not blow it by myself. At first, I got angry and mad. there were no more dandelions to catch as I was further in the path. Then, I realized one thing, It was probably her, who heard my prayer, my wish, my dream. I am sure she heard it, she blew it by herself. Just like that, when I lost her, I felt angry, and mad. I did not experience anything more with her, she was just gone. gone long before I could make future plans on my mind. Gone. vanished. dissapeared. But then I knew I had a way, to let her memory shine brightly in the lives of many, wondurful people. I'll try, I promisse I will.

and for you, something I love;
"My love" - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOL-Yx_kNYo
"Save a place for me" - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T8wWP1A6mks

Save a place for me, save some grace for me, I'll be there soon. I promisse you my love. Goodnight. sleep tight in God's arms.

I x

Long ago.

"the risk of love is loss,

and the price of loss is grief - but the pain of grief,

is only a shadown,

when compared with the pain of never risking love."

- Hilary Stanton Zunin -

there was a time, in my life, long long ago, while we still had her.
while we would stay awake untill very late in the night, while we would still colour all those school books together, while we would smile. smile, together.
there has been only a few years since that dream was still living on. a few years who have turnt into centuries in my mind.
There was a time, a time of wonder, beuty and simpliciness. a time I'd sit and get up. In the midst of it, I wouldn't even think. Now I always stop to catch my breath. I truly have to. I stop, stare, dream, and grief, It's always the same, though. the very, horrifying, missing-filled, and lonely thing. I wonder why, WHY us. But all over the world, tragedies stricke. they come with no previous advice. shut down our lives, completely. I miss her, I defenetely do.
After we lost her, I though my life could never be the same, I though time could heal, though. I was very, deeply, wrong. Time doesn't heal anything, really.
There was a time where my life was filled with glitter, and princess dresses, and sparkling shoes, and pink and purple and a dolls house. filled with deep gratitude. I Still couldn't be more gratefull for the time. I'm so thankfull that God actualy let me live with her, even though it was only a short, extremelly short, time. I completely mourn her loose with every single beat of my heart. I owe her my life, my happiness.

Because once, she made me happy. And now I wonder, where is that fairy? probably (humm) flying over me? I wish I could see her. Just for a second. Just Like a.. shooting star.

everyday,

I find just what I'm looking for. I smile, I giggle, I laugh. I don't pause the moments to catch my breath, I run, I yell happily, I chat, I embrace my friends, and I smile again. Those tipically, naturally, ear-to-ear smiles. a Big, simple and wondurful grin. Those type of days make my heart melt, make my life complete. I tottaly love them and (ugh!) how I misst them. Those type of days I sit and think happily of how good my life is doing, when I look at her and I'm sure she's recovering a bit. when I don't stop to think about the gray sky. When I stay, marvelling, dreaming, observing, my own true world.

today though, it's just not one of those days. Missing the leaves that feel from the trees. I love you all.

I x

today..

I feel like writing down. every single thing. I'm not feeling very well actualy. maybe sick, maybe some lower fevers. I don't know. the other day, carolina was crying. something hurt her. something KEPT hurting her. While my aunt changed her diaper, I staied in the floor, holding her tiny hand. her fingers crawled around mine, the light in her face glew up. She was just happy. Just as it, in a sudden, Her face had a smile again. I remenbered the nights she spent at the hospital, with mum's hand holding her tiny one. The times she had to see needles, hospital food and people dressed in white. I so wish she didn't know anything about hospitals and emergency rooms. I truly though she'd never know. not this soon, not like this. When Someone decides we have to follow hope & faith, there's no options. we can't just turn back and ask "why" because we'll get no answer. sure I turned back a million times, sure I shouted many bad words at that someone, and sure my "why" did not go in vain. I'm sure someone, from up high can hear me. He can hear my prayers, my sould trying to find resting still trying to pray as much as I can. A little princess was once born healthy, too. in a far away land. But princesses can't last forever and hapiness is just a passing feeling. so our true, deep, beutiful, joyfull feeling, is gone too. long before we could even think of movie nights and bowlling games. gone, just like the butterflies who come and go so quickly. it vanished.

pray it will come soon please,
and as I don't know the reason why I posted this post,
I make myself believe it was "just because.."

night night bloggers.
I x

not a word.

tired. sleepless. sick. that's what describes me the best this last days, apart from the appasionated, happy and dreamingspirit words. I haven't been at my high moments but not on my low ones so I guess I'm just in the middle of the sun, with monney, with a van, with everything I need to start my summer trip, exept one thing. yes, everything was just ok if that one thing wasn't missing. It changes my plans, makes my trip boring and stresfull. so what do I do? I sit in the lap of my parked van, with my money on the pocket, with my face towards the burning sun and the big and lonely desert, and I wait. Yes, that's what I've been doing for a long time now. waiting. simply and lovingly waiting. for what? for who? I don't even know. It's like there's not a way or a path that I can walk in, it's like there's not a boat or a lifeguard who can hear me while I'm drowning, it's like there's not a bed, not a room where I can sleep when I'm tired. It's like the whole world dissapeared and flew away and I'm just floating in the air, with little less happiness, little less love, little less selfconfidance. But with a bigger innerstrengh that I don't know where I got it from. Memaw says I'm strong. naturally strong. Maybe I do, maybe not. Time will somehow prove me that. If I can live and reach 1000 days or even more with the though that I'm a winner and that I can do this, well then the rest of the path will be easy. or rough.

the other day, I stopped and stared at a boat. a simple, little, white boat. floating in the sea. It was going so slow that I could truly stop and spend the rest of the afternoon seeing the boat crossing what I call (humm) little less than enough. I could see the simpliciness of the sweet, tiny, white boat. Mum called me; I stoped again.

Go home, mum - I said.
why should I? I'm not letting you outside - she said.
It's quick, I do promisse.

she started walking down the road, always looking back for me to start running. I didn't. Instead, I staied. Barely couldn't move. She called me again, told me I had to go home. In a minute, I looked again to the big great sea, perplexed, I looked for the tiny boat. where was it? I don't know. I remenbered Ivy's buterfly then, could it be? things can't dissapear so quickly. at least, not things like boats. I got closer but the boat, it was just like it never existed, like it's little short time in the water went in vain. Then I stoped, and my arms felt down, then suddenly, my body shacked and I had some visions. visions of two little girls playing happily together, the visions of those days who went slowly while they lasted. the vision of a day where I stoped too, to long, to see, to embrace the times lelft behind. a day I stoped and asked myself too "where was she?" a day I could clearly see sometimes, things, people, everything, might just dissapear.. and they do not say goodbye.

I x

a butterfly.

recently, I read Sheye rosemeyer's last blog post. It touched me, deeply. It's usual for me to be touched by Sheye's words. She lost a daughter, I lost a friend. I often see myself troughout her words, so, it.is.not.rare. This time, though, it was different. Layla was a butterfly too, flying over and over again with her beuty-full smile and enchanting way of living. How can it be true that she's gone forever? that in a blink of an eye, Heaven became so bright? How can it be true? I wish I knew. It's hard to believe she's gone, she's not coming back. Today I'm not inspired to write here, I'm in a rush. I am tired, weak and feeling sick, I'm writing here, Probably, "just because..."

Rest In Heavenly peace Butterfly.

I x

dream {less}

I wish somehow, I could dream. I lay in bed, and pray. I close both eyes, try to think of something good. Then I fall asleep. The dreams? they have dissapeared. I don't understand why, I can't remenber of the last time I truely dreamt. I sure dreamt many times, I still do(when I'm awake) but as I sleep, everything inside turns too dark to see light, and then I can't dream properly. It's sad, actualy. I love to dream (and to make people dream). It's so wondurful to see all those types of things that somehow can't happen in our own world, they're just behind our eyes, when we close them. I truely believe they're as close as it, when we believe so in real life. My favourite dream (of what I can remenber) was the day I met Haylee. I truely loved that day. She was snicking with Bubba, hiding theirselfs from their daddo, while he was in the sofa. They're laughs were pure love. when Sonya arrived I got up and Haylee ran at her saying "mumma, mumma, come play" and I looked at her, I heard her voice. It was angelical. I asked, perplexed, to sonya "Is this Haylee?" she said "Humm yeah". I looked at her, and even though it was a dream, it was the sweetest feeling I ever got to experience. I loved it, the way she'd run, the way she'd pull her head out of her eyes. She was just perfect, even more wondurful than what I could see in clips and pictures. When we were coming out, I was holding her in my arms when I told her she had the most beutiful eyes I'd ever seen. Haylee, called mum and asked to be held by her. then she laid her head on sonya's shoulder and said whishpering in her hear "Inês told me I have the most beutiful eyes she'd ever seen". She was sooo proud of herself! It was probably the best moment of my life, even though it was a dream, it's like I actualy met her. When I got to my car, it was strange. I told my mum "but, but... But Haylee died!" and they were in chock, I was too. I had just held the Baby Girl who I cry for, every single die. And I regret. Regret not having stoped and choiced to be stucked in that dream, forever.

I hope someday the dream will come again, I'll be waiting.

I x

time doesn't heal

the wounds.
I say, while I stay, perplexed looking at a photo of her. Beuty-full. She sure takes my breath away, but why summer days filled with laughter had to be resumed to such short life? I guess the question is "why" most of the times. and I ask, and ask, and ask. and I get no answer back. I think maybe the "never forgotten" thing is just to hide the fear of loosing someone again. I will explain. When you loose someone, you feel the fear, the huge fear no one can ever put in words. we cry. we try to breath but something tells us we can't (when actualy, our body can do it normally). we try to think about other things rather than the missing, but something tells us we can't (when actualy, our mind can do it normally). I could go on, and on, and on. Non-stop. So when time goes by, you loose contact with the lost one, and then? what are we suppose to do? why do we remenber and long? because of the missing? I don't think so.
we do it all because we're afraid. Because the enormous loose left our heart broken into millions of little pieces, and because whenever we think of it, our breath is catched away. That's just because, we're afraid of loosing the same person, once again.

so remenber, pray and wish and yern and griefe and loose, all at once. I'll be here for you, too.

I x

Happy Birth Day.

We lay her softly in bed tonight, she's 1. Come tommorow, she'll wake 2. Tommorow is a day about it - only about it. Dreams, joy, hapiness & much hope. We won't hear the words like "medicines", "doctors", "Brain scheual exams", "Hospital" or even "Epilepsy". Mum will do the whole thing. Preparing the party. cooking for the family (a little help from Memaw). Buying the pink ballon with Disney Princesses Happy Birthday song (that you absolutely adore!). Holding you to blow your 2 tiny candles. Helping you claping your hands. It's gonna be a wondurful day. I'm a little bit sad, though. Trough years I've dreamt about getting a new sister or a new cousin, (a Baby Girl, I'd say it had to be). You came & gave only hapiness and true love to my own heart, you made it shine countless times and made me smile - You are more than I deserve. I searched the world for the perfect someone, and I found her sleeping in my amrs, that 2nd March 2008, a beuty - full day of my life. You had just entered the world. Trough time, I've known all about 1 year-old girls. I know how skinny they are, how they love to (try) talk and especially, how they can light up a room by just walking in it. Carolina was all about that & I am sure time won't take it away, but I'll miss the diapers, I'll miss the nunus & I'll miss the tiny Baby. She's a child now, a Big Girl, she'd say.
How Am I suppose to wake tommroow when 2 years have passed me by in a blink of an eye? This 2 years have been (Nearly) the most hard years of my entire life, but mostly, they were a source of hope and faith and strengh. We learnt to never give up, trough her. We will never (never never never) have words to describe how much our Baby touched our lives and how much we adore her. She is our true princess.

My 1 year-old Princess, who will wake 2 today.
Don't leave the simpliciness or the innocence,
I truely adore you - My hero.

Love,
cousin.
I x

forgeting someone.

wishing. dreaming. travelling. to a world with simplicity and true love. I am broken, all I can do is just talk, think and dream-awake about him. It's just making me go crazy and I'm not liking it. I get nervous and anxcioust by nothing, really. I get despeareted & sometimes truely happy when there are no reasons. I think I'm just falling apart. How is it? How can someone forget their own true love? Even when things get messed up, we simply can't forget when we truely adore that person. He did sooo much. He called me so many things, still I am here writting about him when I could easily be studying or listening to pop music, but no. I listen all those types of love songs who make me miss him, How can I miss someone who did soo much terrible things to me? I guess I will never know. But I miss him. Tonight I lay to sleep, and think and dream, and sleep. Then I know I'll wake up, from a nightmare and fall asleep again. when I see him tommorow probably much doubt that I will feel the forgeting sensation, that thing of when we think we're lost and that the person in question doesn't mean anything to us. That is not true! He is the meanest person ever, but he means the world to me & my heart tells me "Do not give up" I am a fighter, I know. Ive always been, but how can I keep believing for a cause with no happy ending in sight? well If I don't try I won't know but in the other hand, I might aswell get too hurt and too tired and tearyeyed, filled with sorrow and pain and most of all regrets. I am regreting the past, and I hate when it happens. Makes my whole body shake and I just cannot believe this is real, its happening. This is making me scaried, I say I cant forget him but thats in big part due to the fact that I think I don't want to forget him. I want him to tell me sorry and I want to say "It's okay" I want to repeat it all again, and rewing the clock to the 2nd February, 2010. I want so much things! But most of all, I don't want to loose him (but Ive already lost him). I think I am steping forward to the big fall.

Please, be carefull Inês.
think smart, really.
Goodnight everyone.

I x

a little less ordinary

maybe my life is now, a little bit less ordinary. In the stillness of the day, I sit and think about this, about all this tragedies and about all the strong people who go trough it. I know it is, still, a massive tragedy that strocked me, but I have to carry on, I have to believe someday everything will be ok, once.again. I love to hear Carolina, sometimes when bad things seem to happen every time of the day, we just don't notice the beuty inside people, though, I always noticed it in her. Not long ago, she gave me the best grin I ever get to see, and I thanked God she was there, laughing at me. With no aparental reason, she smiled, and kept smiling, and smiling. This can be, sometimes, and for some people, ordinary and just "boring". THere is not, yet, a day where I can take for granted her smiles, her giggles and her laughs. Each time, is a blessing, really. Though every voice, every laugh, every giggle, and every smile, is just a remind really, of what isn't here anymore, and I just wish sometimes, I could call her and tell her how ordinary my day has been. I look at me and look back; I never ever imagined me like this, it was never part of my plans to have to grow up without her. Her smile, her voice, is just far, far, far away. My image of the two of us is together, with crossed arms and pure smiles from ear to ear, but what I get is the ordinary tears, the ordinary faked smiles, the ordinary griefe. Everything that, 4 years ago for me would be completely terrible and just unreal, is now the, "ordinary".

I miss you, so.

I x

Nobody can ever understand;

conducting a life that has no sense, at least, I'd say so. Looking out for a bright tommorow, everyday; and in the stillness of my life, I remenber. I do remenber much things, yet. the "yet" should bring me confort but it does the complete opposite. It just brings me fearness and sorrow. It shows me that, in a few years, I might be pronouncing the "anymore". It breacks my heart, in fact. After she left, I told myself I was never going to forget her. As a friend, I have to remenber, to love, to miss. and I do it. But my mind builds fears for the unknown future. I know I have to carry this sorrow with me for the rest of my days here, but it's just like the pain grows and grows more and more; and the memories are farther and farther in the Horizon. I try to be simple, I even try to smile. But sometimes it's just impossible. and People wonder, people ask. "what's wrong?" they say it plenty of times, really. I can not tell. For that I know they would never understand this world of mine, sometimes so obscure. Though, I still try to find the light in those bittersweet pictures of her, or memories she left behind.

it's not enough, still.

I x

the cold.

Carnival seems to arrive; and I just seem to hate it a bit more each year. It's not because of the hapiness because I do like to see the children all dressed up in sweet costumes and laughing, giggling, smiling. That's what makes the carnival good. It's just that, Carnival brings memories; and with it, crying eyes. But there is soo much parties and celebrations for carnival and I've to go to them all, which I don't really like because I'm so bussy; and when I was a little Girl, I was always excited to go to school that day, princess dresses, bee's customes, supermans, noddies, police mans and thiefs. I just loved it there; The last (amazing) carnival was back in 2005. I wore a ballerina suit and dad bought me 65$ ballet shoes, only for that day. He wanted me to look wondurful, to look magical and enchanted. I sure did. Now I don't feel up to dress customes anymore, I am 14 and I am a bit old to wear princess dresses or cowgirl suits. So in the middle of this cold, with freezing hands and feet, I try to smile. "Just because.."

I x

a river of tears..

..for Haleigh. It seems like no time has crossed us by since february last year. I, myself have been with my eyes closed for 1 year, though I still felt the pain, I still cried and I still longed. in my still life, I tried to remenber. I tried to dream and to make dream. I don't know if I did it. I just don't understand this misteries we have in the Tv; I still close my eyes and think about that child. I don't care about anything else. Her smile, her heart who makes mine melt and the look in her eyes. that sweet, caring, lovely princess was once someone's child. why did someone take her away like this? Haleigh is somewhere.out.there . today I try to remenber, the sound of your laugh, and the sweetness of your photographies. Baby, you are never forgotten. come.home.soon

ballet shoes.

and a super princess. pink. strawberrie milk. making dinner for four. playing in the pudles with her 4 kids. seeing her giving food to Ivy. taking pictures of her. that's just a fraction of things of what the rosemeyer family misses right now. Ava was a very wondurful little Girl, Ava means breath of life and she was, to so many! She was like most 3 year-olds. Loved dolls, pink, ballet and princesses. She was never tired of wearing a heavy tutu, just to show off her wondurful sense of dance. She had a perfect smile, which shew pureness, innocence and simplicity. She loved to run around, dance, smile, giggle and laugh. But for the rosemeyer family, this month brings tears, hapiness, the longing, the sorrow the grieve. It's just because, Ava is Gone. Its true, the super pink princess who didn't dance, who "flew" is flying over the rainbow now. It was early February (the 3rd) when Ava snucked away to get some candies to family car which was unusually parked in the middle of the sun. Eventually, she feel asleep and within the time of 30 minutes, her brain had enough demages. When they found her, it was already too late, and even though she went to the hospital, she pasted away in her aunt's arms, in the 5th february, 2007. Ava, that breath of life, is miles away. Heaven. is. her. home.

It's not fair, really NOT fair. That an angel is part of that amazing blue field, way too soon. She will never be forgotten. And, that pink, will fill my heart, that strawberrie milk will be good to her tea parties in the summer, that dinner for four is always remenbered, the beutiful moments in the puddles, are always captured. that time when Ava would give Ivy food is always present and those pictures of her are always treasured. It is not enough, yet. But when the "is not enough" is all we have, we just got to hold on to it, to the fractions things we still have.

tonight,
fly high Ava,

I x

today, though, I just miss the giggle.

In the 4 past years, I've learnt a lot, myself. Maybe even more than what I've learnt along many life lessons, untill the age of 11. I learnt how to ride a bycicle, I learnt how to say "Mummy" and "daddy" and I even learnt how to writte my whole name in the first years of my life. Followed by pink, sunny and hot days. a child who loved ice creams in late afternoons, and building castles in the sand. a little Girl who always saw the sky as a big blue field, which was never, a place where someone could be. I miss those times, I miss being a little child. I miss being on mummy's lap, and I miss sleeping with daddy. It's not always fun to grow up and have all this responsabilities. If, 4 years ago, you'd ask me if I think I'd be happy again, I would very much doubt. Now I know it's not true. After loosing my bestfriend, I had many options to follow, one was, of course, the easiest. Just let it go and live my life in the darckness of this missing days. I choiced the hardest and I know I'll not regret. I choiced to love, follow, and be guided by God. It's not because I am a very religious person but because I have put all my faith and hope in him. She is gone for a reason, and only God knows it. It is still sad, to leave January.
January is always that month of loose, of mourning and grivieng, but today I just miss the missing, and with it, I miss January. I miss all those beutiful tributes people send to me, and I miss the January of 2006; while we still had her. the first days of January, were, of course, filled with Love. more than the usual. we loved her more, we cuddled her more, we told her more times how much she means to us, and trying not to accept the way that January would mark our lifes, we lived each moment trying to say Goodbye. Just trying, not doing.

we tried to tell her what was happening, but she was clever enough to understand it. she was just way too sick, and to ill to keep on going, I decided I couldn't be selfish, I just had to let her go. I miss January, I miss her, and today, though, I just miss the giggles bettwen our girly chats..

you're my angel, Marta.

I x

a lif filled with magic {and wonder}.

I don't know what to write. Maybe words? I do not know, I am completely 'far away' at the moment; well for a couple of days, maybe. Ok. I have to admit. Black. Green eyes. Enchanted smile. He just makes me smile, God. It's just as if my heart was "boom-boom-boom" everytime of the day. It's completely crazy to me but he does it all!! Put the blames in him; he just makes me dance at no music; makes me smile when nothings funny and makes me.. smile!

It is yet, very sad to remenber other things but they're just impossible to forget. Yeasterday marked the 1000th day without Madeleine. Madeleine "Maddie" McCann was a 3 year-old child who was once in holidays in May, 2007 with family and friends. On the 3rd of May, 2007, her parents left her and her 2 year-old siblings, Amelie and Sean, alone at the appartment that was just nearby the resort's restaurant; Barely they knew that something horrible was going to happen. When her mother, Kate, went to check the kids; she found Madeleine's bed empty and Madeleine was Gone. she searched all around the house and ran off to tell everyone Madeleine had dissapeared. come 1000 days and we're still at the beggining. we are still searching, still praying but somehow we still have that amazingly strong hope and faith that someday, our 6 year-old Madeleine will come home, pray it will be soon.
still missing.
still waiting for you to help.

be on the lookout for this wondurful little darling <3
I x

4 years ago today..

..today I miss her. I miss the sound of her voice and the countless moments spent next to her; I miss the simple and the ordinary; something I always took for granted is now miles away in a place where angels sing; it isnt the fact that I want to hear their melodies too.. it isnt the fact that she is not here, everyday with me; it is the fact that I don't know where Heaven is; and I don't know how many miles I have to travel to find it.. I think today I realized Heaven is very nearby us; it is actualy, inside us. when there is no real prove to that paradise in the sky; I preffer believing my heart is Heaven; I prefer believing that her shinning sould lives on inside me; and so she's always inside me; to wherever I may go. it is YET unmaginable to bear this pain and to carry it along my life; It feels like it was yeasterday that day..I last saw her face! It seems too hard for me to keep on going; but I miss this life she had and most of all I wonder who she would have been today and what could have been of a very wondurful life that faded away, way too soon. 4 years. Oh, 4 years! Can it be? I just don't believe so much time could pass me by since I heard she was gone. I have to create a life that Ive never dreamt of creating or even though about it! I really have to carry on I guess..

tonight I miss her; and I miss the bittersweet sound of her life and laugh; maybe it is still here.. maybe I just can't see her.

I miss you my love, and that will be forever,
18.01.2006 - a day I wish I could forget.

18.01.2010, 4 years without you;

Goodnight Marta, sleep tight wherever you may be!
I x

Happy Birthday Taylor!

so here I am once again; trying to write down on my blog at least, 3 times a week, but I've been bussy and that's why I don't have much messages.
Today isn't a day to griefe anymore, today is a day to laugh, giggle and enjoy. Taylor Warren is now 7 years old. We saw her growing up troughout the blog of her mummy and the website and saw the daily faces of cancer, troughout Taylor. Taylor is one of the most brave persons around this world and I am so happy she's making trough Leukemia and keeping the smile on her face. Today, take a minute to pray for Taylor!
Enjoy your birthday with your family and friends, you are my hero.
And before I go, I leave you with a video for Taylor and snack of pictures of her. Enjoy!

life. itself.

Maybe I've become a little too naughty, a little too perfectionist, a little too sad, a little too stronger. I don't really know. Come at night, I pray for everything, my bedtime is filled with prayers and crossed hands, but what do I gain doing it? I can't see the reason why I still pray here in the silence but I really hope it is worth.





some People have their wondurful family, their wondurful friends, their wondurful life. I can't say my life is horrible but not perfect neither. This is just about beggining again, a new life and a new future, a future I never expeted to be planning down, so sad.





come monday, and it will be 3 years. I can't believe that it was actualy 3 years ago that I last saw her smiling face and her brighten eyes, right there, next to me, I can't believe that so much time has passed me by and I'm still wondering the reason why. I look to a picture of us too, and I wonder what would have been if you hand't left. This is all too much for me, too much tears, too much sadness and a life filled with missing.

today I come to say, thank you for your love and prayers.


I love you M.





I x